By Liesel Schmidt
Welcome to February—the month of amethysts, violets and—of course—so many pink and red heart-shaped everything that you have no excuse for forgetting Valentine’s Day. And while love is in the air, we at Blue Bay Lifestyle Co. can’t think of a better time to dive into date-night dressing.
For those of us who have put thought and effort into what we wear on a date only to have the other party show up in dirty jeans and a ratty tee after mowing the lawn—well, the importance of “date night dressing” is not a point that needs much making. What you wear—i.e., the care you take—in getting ready to go out, whether it’s with your friends, your spouse, your significant other or even someone you’re on a date with for the very first time, shows that you consider them worth making an effort over. So, what, pray tell, constitutes proper date night attire? As with anything, the answer is situational and depends on the type of date. For instance, are we talking a casual coffee date, or are you headed to an upscale restaurant or fancy party? Is there an activity involved—say, hiking or bowling? Weather is also an important consideration. After all, if you’re uncomfortable because you’re too cold or even overly warm, you won’t be able to enjoy the actual date.
Casual First Dates: As anyone who’s spent time swimming in the dating pool knows, first dates can be stressful simply for the fact that you’re headed into a situation filled with unknowns—making your choices over what to wear even more difficult. Nine times out of ten, your first date will be on the casual side—which means opting for something comfortable yet fashionable.
Ladies, denim on denim has made a resurgence. So, consider pairing Liverpool’s fitted jeans with a concert T-shirt and a denim blazer. Top it off with Maui Jim oversized sunglasses, a classically chic leather purse, like one from Hobo, and a pair of Aetrex leather flats or mules.
Guys, try a collared shirt from Vuori or Flag & Anthem paired with Vuori khakis. You’ll look pulled together and confident, and your date will feel like you took time to look good for them.
Coffee Meet-Ups: Coffee dates are a common choice for first dates, because they offer a low-pressure atmosphere for the getting-to-know-you game. Your outfit should match the laid-back vibe of the date. Keep it low-key, easy, and chic. Once again, jeans will be your friend here. Try styling some high-rise jeans with a striped cardigan from Flag & Anthem or bomber-style jacket from Liverpool, depending on the weather. White sneakers and a simple leather belt keep the look classic, while a fun crossbody bag from lululemon or Vuori adds a pop of color and personality.
For the male counterparts of the equation, why not break out a pair of Vuori Sunday Joggers and a North Face three-quarter zip-up? You’ll exude comfort without looking sloppy, and—who knows—you might end up extending the date for a walk or a few frames at the bowling alley. So, you’ll be ready to roll for whatever comes next.
Movie Nights: Since the advent of motion pictures, movies have been a go-to date option for couples, whether they’re on a first date or can’t remember a time when they weren’t together. Sure, movie dates are casual—but you still want to look stylish. Just because you’ll spend hours in the dark doesn’t mean you can get away with looking like you got dressed in the dark. Think comfortable, a little bit flirty and 100-percent put-together. And remember that movie theaters are typically aggressively air-conditioned, so layering is ideal. Try a cute jacket paired over a bodysuit with a plunging neckline for a comfortable, sexy look and complete the outfit with a crossbody bag and Aetrex ankle boots for a modern vibe.
Guys will want effortless comfort and style, as well; so, check out Roark’s tees to pair with your favorite jeans or joggers.
Romantic Dinners: Dinner dates are a classic option for romancing—and who doesn’t love to get dressed up for a night out on the town? Ladies, you’ll want to balance out how much skin you’re showing. For short dresses, keep the skin exposure up top minimized with long sleeves or a high neckline. Longer length skirts, dresses or faux-leather trousers give you the opportunity to show off a little with a deep-V neckline or an off-the-shoulder top.
Embrace the idea of getting dressed up and add some fun high heels and accessories.
Step up your game, gentlemen, with comfortable but stylish button downs from Flag & Anthem and some sharp trousers from Vuori. Your lady will appreciate the effort, and you’ll feel like you’re worthy of her company.
Whatever the occasion, check out all the date night-worthy options at Blue Bay Lifestyle Co. in Fort Walton Beach. From footwear and accessories to dresses, bottoms and jackets, you’ll find a look to love.
bluebaylifestyle.com,
27 Racetrack Road NE,
(850) 374-8236
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